When we stop expecting
from others what they’re not able to give us, we find all what we need inside
ourselves. This does not mean that we have to be selfish in order to feel loved
from the inside. It's not about being selfish, it’s not about the Ego pride and
seeing oneself as better than others. Every human being is equally important
and unique. One among billions. But often, at the bottom of our hearts, we feel
worse than others, not good enough to deserve love, happiness or success. So we
keep trying to prove to ourselves, and others, that we are better than them.
This attitude is the result of our emotional wounds and low self-esteem. It is
important to understand our own unique value and stop craving ongoing
recognition from others -- while keeping in mind that just like everyone else,
we too are unique. Not better, and not worse. Just like everybody else, we are
beautiful, unique and special. Our happiness is not a prize in a “contest of
life”. Such contest doesn’t exist. It is only an illusion which we keep
recreating in our Minds. Happiness is our birth given right. And all we need is
to accept it. We wish you a beautiful day, filled with ease and happiness. J
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